随着我国老年化的趋势越来越明显，中国的老人也越来越多，老百姓的养老问题不仅是国家的一个重要问题，也是一个社会急需解决的问题之一。那么怎样可以让自己年迈的双亲能拥有一个比较幸福的晚年生活呢？人老了，需要什么呢？是需要儿女的呵护和给予多少吗？不是的，是需要儿女常陪左右吗？也不完全是。那是什么呢？是需要伴侣，需要同伴，需要伙伴，需要同龄人在一起交流。一起诉说自己的心事，这样才觉得很快乐，幸福。老人的快乐幸福就是儿女们的幸福与希望。子女是父母生命的延续，他们有自己的理想，有自己的世界观，有自己的事业和家庭，也不能每天老陪在父母身边，然而儿女呢？儿女只有先让老人过的幸福快乐，才能踏实去工作，自己的事业才能做的更好，更出色。随着经济的发展和城市化进程的加快，人口老龄化的现象越来越严重，以往的居家养老模式已经出现了许多弊端，然而，在是不是可以送老人去养老院养老这个问题上，许多子女都会咬紧牙关硬扛。希望通过这篇文章让更多的人了解，让老人去养老院养老，子女存在的障碍是什么？如何可以让子女减负，为这个家庭分忧呢？
With the trend of aging in our country more and more obvious, China's old people are more and more, the pension problem of the common people is not only an important issue of the country, but also one of the urgent problems to be solved. So how can you make your old parents have a happier old age? What do you need when you are old? Is it necessary for children to care and give? No, is it necessary for children to accompany around? Not exactly. What is that? They need partners, partners, partners, and peers. Tell your mind together, so that you feel happy and happy. The happiness of the old is the happiness and hope of the children. Children are the continuation of their parents' lives. They have their own ideals, have their own world outlook, have their own career and family, and can not always accompany their parents every day, but what about their children? Children only let the old people happy, can work dependably, their career can do better, better. With the development of economy and city urbanization, population aging is becoming more and more serious, the home care model has emerged many drawbacks, however, in is not sent the old man to care this problem, many children will bite the hard shoulder. Hope that through this article to let more people understand, let the elderly go to the nursing homes for the aged, what are the obstacles to children? How can let the child burden for the family share?
伴随着我国老年化的逐步加快，特别是独生子女的父母已经岁数大了，而“421”模式的家庭也会越来越多，这些子女的工作压力和生活压力也会越来越大，自己还要照顾孩子，可是许多子女心有余而力不足，所以一些养老机构的出现就成了许多老人的选择。但是，据目前来说，老人自己本身也比较愿意去养老机构养老，因为只有那里才能找到自己的乐园。每天伙伴们都能在一起，都有交流心事的时刻，这样才觉得自己很快乐，幸福。老人的快乐幸福正是儿女们的期望。然而，好多儿女心里很矛盾，有时不太接受这个事实。自己心里是很不情愿的。那么产生这种情况的原因又是什么呢？首先就是观念难以更新。过去人们认为养儿是为了防老，只有没有子女的老人或者子女不孝的老人才会去养老院养老，子女一般是不愿违背这样的舆论压力。其次，一些养老机构的服务水平往往会受到质疑。说起养老院，人们总是担心老人在那里不会得到很好的照顾。对那里的服务质量不放心。其实如今人们的理念也在发生变化，如果老人去一个条件比较好的养老院养老，也是子女对父母的孝敬。那里的饮食和照料大都超出了家里的条件。老人在那里能真正地开心幸福的生活。所以，子女们为何不把老人送到这样的养老院(疗养院)去享受晚年的幸福生活呢？
Along with China's aging gradually accelerated, especially the one-child parents have a great age, and the "421" model of the family will be more and more, these children work pressure and life stress will be more and more, they have to take care of the children, but many children have more than heart weak, so some pension institutions have become the choice of many old people. However, according to the present, the elderly themselves are more willing to pension institutions pension, because there is only to find their own paradise. Every day the partners can be together, there are exchanges of mind at the moment, so that they feel very happy, happy. The happiness of the old is the expectation of the children. However, a lot of children are very contradictory, sometimes not quite accept this fact. My heart is very reluctant. So what is the reason for this? First of all, the idea is hard to update. People used to think that raising children is to age, not only the children of the elderly or children filial old people can go to the nursing home care, children are generally unwilling to violate such public pressure. Secondly, the service level of some pension institutions is often questioned. Talking about nursing homes, people always worry that the old people will not be well cared there. Don't worry about the quality of service there. In fact, people's ideas are also changing, if the elderly go to a better condition of the nursing home for the aged, but also the children's filial piety to their parents. The diet and care are mostly out of home conditions. The old people can really happy and happy life there. So why don't children send the old people to such a nursing home (sanatorium) to enjoy the happy life in their old age?